I decided to start this blog for many reasons. I have gotten very interested in sex toys and I tend to have a love for collections. I wanted a way to document and detail my journey in collecting sex toys.
More importantly though, I wanted an outlet where I could interact and join a sex positive community. I had an average childhood, but I grew up in a very conservative environment where many damaging ideas about sex were perpetrated, little to no sex ed was offered, and sexism prevailed. The past few years I have struggled tooth and nail to re-wire my brain so to speak on how I think about sex. I am extremely proud of my progress but know I still have a long road ahead of me. This blog will serve as a space for me to chronical my experiences and as a documented reminder of how far I have come. I hope to one day be able to look back and rejoice that these days of struggle are behind me.
As my boyfriend and I continue to reach new heights in our sex life, sex toys have become more and more enticing to me. Not that I didn’t enjoy them before, but I didn’t know them like I do now. That’s not to say I am an expert. Far from it. I just have a greater understanding and respect for sex toys being in a long-term, loving, and ever evolving sexual relationship (and that’s not to say you need to have any of that to enjoy sex toys- it’s just what helped me). I see them as a way to enhance and explore our sexuality together and therefore enhance our sex life, sexual relationship and ultimately our relationship and lives as a whole.
Thank you and again, welcome!